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How to approach a girl

Look for go signals: Oftentimes, Timing can be your reason for being ignored. DO approach a girl if she is sitting/standing and looks relaxed. DON'T approach a girl if she is deeply preoccupied with something

APPROACH FROM THE SIDE: Approaching a woman from behind or the front can be intimidating. Instead, slowly approach girls from a side angle so they can see you coming and prepare for your presence, rather than be startled by it

MAKE AN INSTANT EYE CONTACT: As soon as you approach a girl, the first thing you want to do is make eye contact. This is important for two reasons:
1. It shows confidence.
2. It creates a sense of closeness

SHOW THAT YOU ARE HARMLESS:Use These Signals to Help Girls Feel at Ease Open body language; open torso with nothing blocking you.
Direct eye contact upon approach.
Visible hands to reassure them you are not going to hurt them

ENTER AND EXIT PLAN: Studies have found that people are incredibly judgmental & hesitant when they first meet people. You should know how to start a conversation and what you are going to talk about. Can ask them for advice, Ask them for a favor, Make a stand (but don't overdo it), Prove You're worth talking to and end a convo at a natural
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